Searching for the truth..for me 5

[Rusty]

bear - I really feel for you. But I totally understand feeling like you need to set some limits as to how long you are willing to accept this situation! I have been told by many that, focus on yourself and making yourself a better person and move forward towards what you want on your own and life will follow. My biggest help was prayer although it was hard to think God would allow for this to happen. But I do believe without my stich I would never have grown to be the person I am becoming everyday. I would have stayed controlling and focused on me, instead of understanding how a partnership was supposed to be and loving someone for who they are, not who I think they should be. Anyway- I think there should be some forum on focusing more on yourself and becoming the best person you can be no matter what!
I love this - a place to really get to know and be around folks going through similar life experiences!