Help! New to this...still hoping for R

[Rusty]

Thanks so much! I guess I won't set the day or time and see if he initiates the talk. I told him I wanted to get it all cleared up, mostly because I am afraid of what he can do to me regarding the business interest, which could be very lucrative. I do believe he wants to take care of me, but I don't want OW to have any claim on it, due to the fact that all the money invested was mine and my dad's. I think I need to have something in writing to protect me and my kids. He really has been very stand-offish since we ML last week, like he feels like he cheated on someone else. I'm his wife, how can he cheat with me?? I am playing it really cool and aloof, but I don't know if he even notices. Good idea - I will back off and let him lead, although I don't want to lose anything in the process. What do you think??