Matilda, The visitor hasn't come yet. We'll see how that situation develops.
My W keeps pushing for a Hawaii vacation, and strongly hints that I be her travel companion. I'll make another trip to the travel agent this week, and advise them that I want a budget trip. Surely, one can travel to Hawaii for two for less than 5K. The package the last travel agent showed me was a pretty high class trip.
In my happiness book I'm reading the author talks about the five hindrances to happiness and a calm mind--desire (materialism, entitlement), restlessness (worry), fatigue (passivity), doubt, and aversion (annoyance, anger). She says that each of us favors one of the hindrances due to temperament and habit. I'm guessing that mine is either doubt and/or aversion (particularly annoyance).
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CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
