Oh Kym, I know how you feel. My X remarried 14 days after the divorce. He seems to be doing fine and i was left to try to take care of the mess he made of our house.....and our lives, and to try to pick up the pieces. Yep, they did wrong but they seem to be doing fine. It sucks, I agree. But I think in the long run we are better off. Would we want to be with someone with so little integrity? We have our values, and they have a marriage that has a slim chance of survival, and they have to live with what they did, even if it doesn't seem to have any effect on them right now. So no 2X4 from me, just a hug and some sympathy. I know how you feel and I totally have been there.l So now pour me a drink and look ahead to the good stuff that is sure to to be coming!!!!!!
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
