I think you can when the party that leaves isn't sure what they want because it makes the transition for the kids much more gradual.
I thought of inviting him because I didn't want the kids to miss out on going with their good friends I guess. I didn't even think.
Of course my D's birthday trumps Tahoe. Her birthday, and party, is Saturday. I wasn't going to go until Sunday.
What I wonder is if I GAL to Tahoe or take H up on HIS invitation to do something together. Do I mention the false hope? Or is that pressure because it somewhat says to tell me that it's not false hop?
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09