There and Back, up and walking #2

[Astimegoeson]

I'm glad things are progressing in a positive direction for you and your H. There is hope for the two of you and your kids.

We (LBS) are on the other end of this knowing full well the work involved in addressing our own issues in order to restore our M. Your correct to delicately stand your ground because you know without some help for him nothing will change and you could well find yourself in this same position in the future.

There is a reason beyond just you for his behavior and he needs to address it. I wish somehow I could have convinced my stbx to get the help she needs. Even if it didn't lead to our reconciliation, it would have been nice to see some peace in her life. She still is the Mother of my Son and I don't like to see her depressed and as lost as she is now. I don't think I was as graceful as you trying to explain the change in me and my need to have her emotionally healthy and grounded before moving back in together. She became defensive and I got frustrated. Good job on your part for the patients, wisdom, and understanding you show.