Cinders... I am so with you...they appear to make it look like they could care less that our M is over...I have been with my H for 30 years....I am mourning the loss...I do feel the pain...I cry, I scream...I pray...and when H calls my son he is so happy and cheerful it makes me sick....they want us to go away...but...surprise...we're not...I don't know if you read what I wrote about what my D15 texted me the other night...
I was apologizing for everything she is having to go through and this is what she said.... "mom it's not your fault....you were the perfect wife but dad couldn't handle it...so he had to go out and find someone equally as low as he is...he knew he didn't deserve you, so you're really gaining something...realizing who is true in your life, while he is losing everything""
All this from a 15 year old child who my H says doesnt understand relationships and he'll explain it to her when she gets older..wow....makes ya wonder....they reallyd don't have a brain right now...
I'm so glad I have all you to vent to....it truly helps some of the pain..
Treese
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
