Oh and therapist mentioned to have my paperwork ready (for mediation), but no need to bring it up by the end of May if I am not ready. But he H approaches me, be prepared and don't fight it. That's what I'll do for now.
I think I'm having a lot of the same feelings as you lately. That sounds good, Lwb! I kind of feel that way too, I'm trying to be prepared for divorce and mediation, and will not fight H or slow down the process, but I'm still going to let him do all the work. Do you think they ever feel guilty for what they're doing at all? My H is such a good rationalizer that sometimes I wonder. Karen
Karen