Cinders, First of all here's a (((((((((hug)))))). Secondly here's a (((((((((hug)))))))))) for your MIL. I would love to have a MIL like her! My MIL still comes to see me and the kids. It's gone from once a week to somewhere between fortnightly to monthly depending on what else she has on. She see's H and OW several times a week. Despite being told exactly how I feel she cannot see how she is hurting me. She just tells me her R with OW is different to the one she has with me. She is the delusional one.
Your MIL deserves your love and your continued respect. I don't feel like mine does.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15