If you watch the Video's Michele Davis has on her site here she warns about the dangers of using statistics...heed them.

You can use this information to help you, or to discourage you, its your choice how you react to the data.

Affairs that are one day long are "one-night_stands". Its still an affair, just not a LONG TERM ONE. The one day long affairs likley don't have much emotional involvement at all and are just physical release.

The problem with just reading these stats as a blanket is that they don't remind you that you are IN the affair in a way and can INFLUENCE the affair's survival and termination. Focus on the fact that you can affect these numbers, you aren't a powerless victim of them.

You CAN change that...just like the average lifespan, chance of heart attack, etc, how you life your life changes where you fall on the line. Work with how much influence you have and don't become one of these statitics.

Last edited by Mark F; 05/18/08 09:10 PM.