Bear - I haven't followed your story, I am very new to DB,but I know exactly how you feel. Me and my H have been S for 2 1/2 years. We dated for a 9month period in there, but that was 10months ago and when he decided not to see me anymore, it hurt worse than the first S. Good for you wanting to move on for yourself! I think you will find your H will notice and it will make him think. Whether or not he will make any movement toward you, I don't know, but if you are really doing it for yourself, it doesn't matter! You won't be lonely for long. Good luck to you, I will think of you and it will give me strength!


Me-48 H-48
Married 25years
Sep 12/05
S-24, S-22, S-18, D-12
Dated for 9 months of S, not dating now
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