Still following you from Infidelity....

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I do very well mostly...once in a while though, I see my friends who are married...going through good and bad, and I long to have that again. I miss my marriage. The companionship, the love we shared


I feel this way too. I am so sorry about your day. My in laws are like yours, very loving and supportive. Even though my H's OW is out of the picture, I see another one eventually coming (I don't see us getting back together), and they will have to accept this person. Its just the cycle, the way things change.

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and cry about what used to be, or what could have been.


I understand. I think we all do. Just from following your thread, I know you in generally in a great spot, enjoying your life. I go to see a therapist about once a month. She has a way of 'grounding' me. Last Friday, she said "You can't change the past, you can't control the future, all you can do is appreciate the present".