My prayers go out to you and your family. Your in-laws love and support you--don't forget that. This visit with them today may not go so smoothly as H and OW think but just keep doing what you are doing and being who you are.
I remember when my uncle left his wife and three kids and moved in with the lady from the bank. He ended up divorcing his wife to marry OW. One week before the wedding he went back to first wife and asked to take him back because he still loved her and this was the biggest mistake of his life. She said no and he married OW one week later.
He was never happy with OW and always looked like something was missing.
The first wife is still very close with our family and all of the cousins still refer to her as aunt so and so. Wife #2 never did fit in very well.
You keep your chin up and know God is with you.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
