Shades, wow...sounds like the most wonderful, fun, joyful birthday party a girl could dream of !! You are such a sweet and caring mom to your girls ! I agree with Angelica that your H is a fool not to see it. Then again, there is no cure for these fools, we just have to get on with it and make the very best of our time here, and love and cuddle our kids, for it is THEY that are missing out.
Take care x
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus