WW is more quiet today than anything. She's been reading her book. Oh boy. DS16 looked at it and was pretty upset that it's about some woman that has an affair and "their passion set her free". That's another reason he told me we should just get a divorce. He thinks her reading crap like this will just make her think even more that having the affair was the right thing to do. Bout makes me want to puke. I've thought about calling her on the book, telling her how much it upsets DS16, but he doesn't want me to say anything and I think it would be just another sign to her I'm controlling.
Kind of snapped at me once and I called her on it and she kind of apologized. But a couple things last night that I failed to mention give me hope that more baby steps are happening. I was putting some jeans in the washer and I asked her if she had any jeans that needed washed. She said YES! Wow.....first time she hasn't said in an angry tone "I'll take care of it". Then I had put a pizza in the oven and the washer beeped so I was down stairs putting the jeans in the dryer and the oven beeped and WW actually got up and turned the oven off and took the pizza out for me!
Golly, it's just amazing that a couple little things that everyday people would think is NOTHING and I'm all excited because it shows WW may be making some small steps back towards me. Question is, can I wait long enough for her to actually make her way back to a point where she wants to try to really work on the marriage.
Oh well...more of the PMA. I'm thinking if her attitude stays the same this week I might try to initiate a little contact. Maybe just a shoulder squeeze or something. What do you guys think? What about calling her on the book and how it upsets DS16?
Last edited by Hope4us; 05/18/0807:03 PM.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
