Your response was perfect. What I don't understand is if he knows you deserve better and he knows he's been a total jerk, why can't he TRY to make things better. Why throw in the towel? Why not give it all you got?

I hope you have a happy day.

M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence