Yes it was like that for me too. I takes time for the feelings to come to the surface again. My H wouldn't tell me he loved me or wear his wedding ring even though he moved back home. He was still working on the buried feelings. It took a very long time and almost floored me when he put on his ring and didn't even tell me. Then the ILY's started again.
The intimacy, yep! There were no feelings toward me on his part. No emotions, no love. He didn't act the same. Believe me that has all changed now!!! It takes time for them to finally get through the last part of MLC.
Hang in there.
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Thank you very much Yellowrose,
Yesterday I went out with my sister, I hardly ever go anywhere Ofcourse on the one day I go anywhere I run into my husband's friend and my youngest BIL. Thats ok though I saw my BIL earlier in the evening already. My BIL just laughed seeing me out.
My husband's friend sees the change in my husband and they do not talk much anymore. He advised me to move forward and let my hubby come running. My husband's friend and brother both think my husband has no appreciation for me. It hurts because sometimes I feel the same way. I also remind myself of people like you who pulled through and have a better marriage.
God promises full restoration and He restores tenfold.
So I am going to hang in there and finally after a long time I am actually begining to GAL. Its just so hard to do with four young children and work.
