Thanks everyone for the info....I think that is my H....he had an exit affair but then again he has been seeing her for a while and it was another before that....and i had no clue....i surely feel kind of stupid to have put him so high on that pedistal..

Treese

H 49
M 45
D 23, D17, S12
M 25 T 31
01/07 OW H at my door w/proof
Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07
Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass,
Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9
11/08 pos.paternity