How do they walk away?

[Treese]

Thanks for all the information all....it helps....

I was just watching a tape my mom gave me from Dr. Phil..don't know if anyone else saw it but it was a wife who was having an affair with another married man....a friend of theirs...OMG, so much like my sitch...I felt like they were talking about my life...I was crying watching it...

Everything said was so true....both the wife and the other man both say that the children won't be affected...that maybe up front they will but long term they will not and Dr. Phil was all over that....he even told the wife that she needs to finish the first relationship BEFORE she can have another.....that she has history with her H and that she never gave her H and her M a chance that it deserved...that she IMMEDIATELY NEEDS to end the A and concentrate on her M for a period of time and if it doesn't work out then end it but BEFORE she continues with a new one....

He also bet everything he had that the A relationship would not be in 5 years.....WOW!! I know I can't give this tape to H but geez, he needs to see it...it is affecting my children and he is in his lala land thinking it will all be okay..

Oh,,,,and funny but the wife having the affair....well, her mom was divorced 4 times....and she said it won't affect her children..there is proof....

So, I thought I'd share...and now I'm off to coach again...LOL!!
Semi-final game...hope we win....I think I'm going to get coach of the year...NOT! LOL

Treese