Eagle, You seem to be handling this so well given your W's anger. I agree with Sara - get another C. Your C shouldn't be telling you to move on. You're the only one that should decide when it's time to move on. I take it W isn't going to her own IC to deal with her issues? I think you're right about W's mood swings being her internal conflict. As long as you keep seeing some positives in W's actions, it allows you to maintain hope that your M can be saved.
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