Thank you so much for the encouragement! I sure do hope he will come to his senses. I wish it was sooner than later tho. I'm not very patient, although I haven't called or anything.
I got our older dog to eat, don't know if you've read my thread but she is having some kidney failure & I've had a hard time getting her to eat. This has really been hard for me especially with what I've been going through I just can't loose her too. I took her to a holistic vet last week & I sure hope it is doing some good. I just wanted to call H & let him know but I didn't & I won't. He does know she is having these problems b/c I told him when he was here a month ago.
Even with him in another state, do you think he might still come back??
Thank you again for your help, I'm so happy for you!!!
I was reading on another thread....what is an exit affair? Is that an affair to get out of the relationship for good so they try to get you angry so you will say your done?
I chaperoned prom last night...it was fun...and the kids love me...makes me feel good...there is where I get my hugs...H called my phone last night....s10 had called to tell him he won his games (I coached, thank you very much)...so H was probably trying to call him...but he called my phone first and then he called the house...I did not answer or call him back....son answered at home while I was gone and he talked to H...I"m proud of myself for not calling back...
Anyway, another weekend gone by....
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
I don't know what an exit A is. Maybe someone does know.
I am glad you had a great time last night. The weekends were always the hardest time for me and that is when I really tried to keep myself busy. It sounds like you are doing the same. Keep it up!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Types of affairs Although there are many reasons for affairs, most fall into one of four categories:
The boat-rocking affair - when one partner has an underlying dissatisfaction with the relationship. The affair is an unconscious way of drawing attention to the problem and bringing things into the open.
The exit affair - when an affair is used to get out of a relationship. Rather than confront the fact that a relationship isn't working, an affair forces the issue.
The thrill affair - the illicit nature of an affair brings with it an adrenaline rush. Add to that the excitement of sex with someone new and the romantic trimmings of a fresh relationship, and it can seem irresistible.
The three's company affair - can go on for years; it can also describe a string of successive affairs. Some people find it difficult to commit to one person; they feel stifled by monogamy and fear putting all their emotional eggs in one basket. Having a third person on the scene can provide an outlet for difficult emotions.
