lo,

That is wonderful about the race... all power to you!!

It pains me to hear about your little one.. and it makes me so
mad what your stbxh is doing. Doesn't he see the effect is is having on her...

Just love her as much as you can and be there for her... you H is in a thick distant fog...

(((((hugs)))))

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.