Confused no longer - Give me the strength

[Snow White]

I don't sign on DB for one Sat evening and look what I'm missing

What's all that mean? I get the impression that waywards think because they don't have any morals, no one else does either. I like Pup's suggestion. If your H starts getting jealous, I would just tell him that he gave up the right to be checking up on who you're talking to/spending time with when he moved out, but that YOU respect your martial vows and will continue to do so.

Hey H4U can't believe it took a threesome discussion to draw you to my thread!

Thanks for the advice. I think my H has always been slightly jealous, except for I never, ever did anything on my own. Not because he wouldn't let me but because I didn't care to. Before this all went down on occasion he would bring up things from 10 years ago once when I had to stay late in a lab at school and once when I went out with my slutty SIL and that he wonders what happened. I think what you are saying about morals is correct I think he thinks since he hurt me I have the right to do the same and he is afraid of that. However, I have more respect for myself than that, and my own morals are outside of anything he does or has done.