Ok, Sara. I see what you mean about thinking about the good times. I can try to really focus on those things. It's like some of the things he has done in the last 2 weeks are great, but he could do anything right now and they I just don't have the feelings behind it yet (from me). I'm going to go with what the books say about giving it time. It did feel nice to snuggle....nothing fantastic...but it was nice. Maybe nice will turn into fantastic a few months from now.
h4h- advice, validation, and friendship....exactly
Lor- I have the lack of wanting to be intimate with H now too. It used to be the other way around. It hasn't been that long that she stopped with the OM, so like me she may need some time.
Anyone have thoughts on this? the intimacy part of it? I don't like to talk about this, but I could use some people's take on it.
Yesterday was back to pre OM. We ran errands, did chores around the house, I did some work, watched a movie at night, went to bed. I did give H a massage. Didn't want to, but I did it. He really loves massages.
