Rtl, Thank you for your kind words about my sitch. I really tried GAL yesterday and I hope to turn things around. I really do not want to become a WAW, yet I also don't want to be treated badly.One thing I am going to try very hard to do is when I speak to my H, tell him what I want rather than what I don't want. Things were becoming so negative between us that I was only saying negative things and complaining about his behavior. I saw a slight improvement this morning and I hope to work on this today . Like you say, baby steps, maybe I will see results.
