nlt, Whatever note you write, ask yourself "How would he react to this note?" E.g. will mentioning the alimony check trigger resentment or will it make him feel appreciated?
No I haven't heard back from my H. I went to watch "The Other Boleyn Girl". It was sad. On the way home, I was thinking about my H and wondering why he is acting the way he is and why he's so stubborn about not coming home. I asked God to show me what He wants me to do about it, and to help me cope.
Sometimes I wonder if my H is totally done with me. But then I remind myself of the "signs" that seems to point to me that God plans to restore my M.
Next weekend is special. Every year we used to go away with his family to this place. Of course we din't go last year. He did come over to visit last year because he was reminiscing the previous years. Not sure what he's going to do this year.
I have been hoping he'd take me to see "Ironman". I heard great reviews about it. My stepsons already saw it.
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It is hard with no kids, we both wanted them but I couldn't have kids. H always said it didn't matter to him that I was all he needed. He sure isn't showing that now!!!
Do you think he left because he wants kids and thinks his time is running out? In my case, my H didn't want kids, even though he knew I wanted kids from the beginning. He already has 2 kids so it hurt that he wasn't thinking of my needs.
Anyway, tonight I was reading "The Five Languages of Apology". Great book. He even stresses it's important to apologize to ourselves and forgive ourselves. He said that it's a mistake to never think again about our failure. Instead, we need to learn from our failure.
I hope you are able to get the help you need for your dog. I know how hard it is to lose a dog. I lost a 2.5 year old about 15 months ago. He was a very good boy and it happened very suddenly. It happened within less than 24 hours.