I never responded to you before. I wanted to let you know that I think you did the right thing by kicking your h out. I think it was an act of tough love. He was acting like a spoiled child and was walking all over you. You stood up to him and showed him who the real grown up is/was.
I think he will come back to you. You've had some positives today. Keep thinking positively ok?
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*