Yeah, them's the rules. And if it makes you feel any better, Snow White, I'm sitting here too on a Saturday night, just smoking a good cigar and enjoying a glass of Shiraz on my pool deck, on yet another sexless evening. :o(
Hi Snow White....we are here together in the same boat! Last night I went to the movies alone for the first time in my life. I saw Narnia 2. It was SOOOOO good. It just made me sad that H was'nt there to see it with me, since we both love the Narnia series. It was a little uncomfortable sitting there alone while waiting for the movie to start, I agree. I got some popcorn and didn't have to share! But once the movie started, it wasn't so bad at all. I am glad that I went.
But here I am on a Saturday night, working again on my webpage and just goofing off on the computer. I am running out of money, so can't afford to go anywhere. I get paid next week but only have enough for the things I need (food and gas) until then.
Hang in there...you are doing well.
Sara
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
I don't sign on DB for one Sat evening and look what I'm missing
SW, Haven't commented on you sitch for a while, but I've been following along. Isn't it funny how the waywards don't want to be with you, but don't want you to be with anyone else either? In my sitch OM got insanely jealous of a couple of TM's she got from a guy she works with. He checked her cell phone bill and did some on line search and found out who it was. And OM went balastic. The friend is African-American and OM is the most racist pig around. He started calling OMW all kinds of names and was talking about her F'ing the N. You get the picture. And here's the kicker. OMW does taxes on the side and was doing this co-worker's taxes and just needed a couple of additional pieces of info. That's another thing that bothers me about the mess I'm in. Not so much anymore, but while WW was in the middle of the affair I could tell her attitude had changed some when it came to minorities. And it made me sick. We've always brought up our kids to be accepting of all races/cultures and I could see some of OM's attitudes creeping in and I wanted to puke.
What's all that mean? I get the impression that waywards think because they don't have any morals, no one else does either. I like Pup's suggestion. If your H starts getting jealous, I would just tell him that he gave up the right to be checking up on who you're talking to/spending time with when he moved out, but that YOU respect your martial vows and will continue to do so.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
It was a little uncomfortable sitting there alone while waiting for the movie to start, I agree. I got some popcorn and didn't have to share! But once the movie started, it wasn't so bad at all. I am glad that I went.
Its funny you say that about the popcorn, I always get the medium bag and we bring half home, I almost ate half before the movie started because I felt like I needed to be "doing" something. I'm glad that I went too. I actually considered seeing Narina because I have been following your thread and at least I would have someone to discuss it with. It didn't start till 10:30 though so I didn't want to be driving home that late.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
