Thanks Ping - this is what I am doing - I will not contact her. If she is in the house or calls me, I will respond. Maybe I am being a bit naive, I will get her off my mind.

Fears - quicksand - why? If anybody ever watched the bad movie The Replacements...

Quicksand - that is what I am afraid of. The more you strugle, the more it binds you, you keep doing the same thing and it eventually consumes you. There is nothing you can do but let it take you down. I am stepping out of the quicksand - no more backslides - you have heard this, but I am not pursuing her, emailing, texting, calling, nothing. I will continue to work on CBK.

Keep throwing stuff my way.

CBK


M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19
Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16
Divorce final 10/09