Good for you for fighting! I have read on here people say, "they are just papers...keeping working on things." Even if the divorce happens, at least you can look at yourself and know that you did everything you could. Hang in there. Many divorces have stopped before the final paper was signed.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08