Ok,FLTC, WHAT do you want to let go of? The pain and frustration? The financial stuff? The worry about how your children are going to handle this?
Your kids are NOT going to have a fatherectomy (although that term is quite clever!). You will always be their father, and they love you and enjoy being with you. You haven't forgotten your trip to Florida already, have you???? Sure, it will be different!!! Sure, it would be nice to be an intact family. However, that is not the way it appears it will be. Didn't you pick an apt that will be near them? You may not be in the same house every night with them, but the time you will have together will be wonderful. Maybe you will get custody of the children, not your wife!
You have a choice of not communicating back to your wife if the communication is causing you pain. You don't even have to open her emails! You don't need to think about sending her any money until your next pay day. You have been overly generous. She will never admit that. Can you accept that?
Take care! Stay safe!!! (You seem overly distracted again. Be careful!)
