In the long term, one of two things will have to happen for me to be happy. Either my W will learn to love me again, or I will have to learn to stop loving her
Wow, that implies you still have delusions of attachment Andy. But they're good goals nontheless my friend.
So, in the context of DBing, what things do you think you need to do to achieve either of the above choices? And what's keeping you from doing them?
