Hey Andy,
I do think about you from time to time, from a lot of time to a lot of time.

Interesting question: what is love? Has a unique answer for each and every one of us, me thinks. IMHO. For me, sometimes it's infatuation, sometimes it's sex, but most of the the time it's probably hindsight.. why didn't I take it when it was offered? or that Romeo/Juliet thing... can't have it. You realize however, this is so anti-DBing. I'll let you go there for a bit, and myself as well, but we are taught here that it's a CHOICE, a decision, and that's when I think the love is fed and grows. It is a living thing. It requires food and water and smiles and fog. My 2 cents.

Also, welcome to limbo land. What you gonna do about it? You can 1)wait, and wait and wait and wait and watch your life go by 2)give up and D 3)whatever, I don't know. The point I'm trying to make here is we do have a choice too. You and I have chosen to wait. So live with it. We won't wait forever, I guarantee you that. So when's the breaking point? Mine is getting pretty close. All I have left is my faith now that I'm ok, I will be ok and that things ALWAYS work out.

SS