(((((Ellie))))) Welcome, I don't think you've posted on my thread before!
I think the biggest issue she has is that I don't follow up as well as she would like on household chores. Our standards for some things are different, I don't think mine are all that low, but they are lower than her's. I know that I do more than she seems to think, and really, the more I do, the higher the bar has been raised. Which leads to me giving up. Kind of a vicious cirlce.
I've got the 5LL, I've tried to figure her's out. The only one that seems to apply is AOS, but it has to be the acts she chooses, other acts are rejected. I've sort of decided her LL is "leave me the heck alone!"
I argue with myself all the time, as far as whether it is better for the kids if we D or if we don't. It's not like we are setting a great example, but we are both here. I don't think I have years in me if nothing changes, it has already been years. It won't be something that's taken lightly, that's for sure!
