Hey, cat, Hey deuxlie, I just went and read your posts before I replied, and cat I am so sorry that yours is coming to this end, I have seen so many similarities in our sitches, with them both being cops. I must say, though, that you are handling things remarkably well, you and your kids will know how gracious their mother is, and was through all this. Obviously your son sees it already.
Deuxlie, thanks for stopping by, and I did have a great Mother's day. My S actually made lunch for me all by himself. And he gave me breakfast in bed. H had to work. Also, I have to tell you that I, too, have that snarky streak in me, and my filters don't work as well as I could wish. I bite my tongue alot.
I guess things are going well, our S said this morning that he thinks his F maybe isn't messing around anymore, that he has seemed so much different over the past few months. I have been busy with trying to help out as much as possible with his family, his F had to had heart surgery, and then they discovered he had colon cancer, and had surgery for that, and then they said it has spread and is in his lymph nodes, so finally they started treatment for it yesterday, and he feels stronger already. H's brother had a mild heart attack, and had to have surgery, and his mother has medical problems, and I take her to the doc when she needs me to, and I pick up stuff they need, and just try to help out whenever. I am starting to get a little caught up with our finances, so that makes me feel a little less stressed, thank God, because the stress from that and our sitch, and his family was taking a toll on MY health. H is being less of an a** to me, so that is nice.
So, that is how my sitch is going now. The weather is beautiful here, thank God, it isn't hot yet.
