Wading with Water wings - 23 years...

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Hi CBK (((((HUGS)))))!!!

I agree that your W moving out is a good thing. You were having such a hard time detaching - you will now be forced to detach. There will still be days where you want to contact your W but DON'T!!! Do not keep giving her reasons to keep blaming you. Allow her to come to terms with her own unhappiness.
Focus on yourself and your kids - although they are adults this is still devastating for them. They need you now more than ever.