I have to be careful not to let my own anger and disappointment at H spill over into how I deal with the issues with our sons. I KNOW that already, it's just hard to put peacefulness into practice, to set aside the injustice of it. He seems to expect me to go out of my way to make it easier for him to see the boys when HE is the one who moved so far away! I resent that incredibly. Am I wrong to think it is HIS responsibility to come get the boys if he wants to be with them? He doesn't even have a job, and I am the one trying to juggle 2 jobs and keeping a stable home for the boys. I don't have time to be running to the greyhound station in the middle of the night, much less spending 2 days shuttling them to another state.
Me 43 H 43 S13, S16 M - 21 yrs 5/05 Bomb1 EA 3/08 EA/MLC bomb2 & left home 5/08 back together and piecing