My old thread locked.....

H is definitely in depression/withdrawal stage.

He is not making much contact with me.

When he had the kids the last two days, both said that he left them at home for hours at a time. He appears sluggish and preoccupied.

The baby told me that "daddy is really crabby and mean".

His world is crashing down on him.

He is miserable.

He is not picking up the stuff he wanted from the house.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11