I wish I could show my H the changes I've made, but he is in another state & I am not seeing anyone that would talk to him & let him know.
Maybe... each time you get your alimony check or every so often, you could thank him for doing that (card, email, text or voicemail). Or if/when you have to forward him his mail, write a very short note on the envelope - thanks for... or something else nice. Just a thought....
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I'm doing my best to have faith. There are times when I just feel like he is coming home again but right now there is no sign what so ever.
Yes, I know what you mean about doing your best to have faith. I am the same. Exercising faith can be challenging. It is also rewarding, for us, even if things don't turn out the way we imagined it to. In the end, it's better for us either way. Keep up the praying, no matter how impossible it may look. We don't know what's happening behind the scenes. Pray for God to constantly put a hedge of thorns around your H to turn OW away.
