I am not good with goals...it's really hard b/c of the idea that you cannot control so many things. So, I ask, what would have to happen before these goals of yours would occur? Also, 2 and 5 are related...so perhaps, make a goal of H showing any small sign of affection would precede the hug goal. Just a thought. I also think that 3 and 5 are related. If he gives you a compliment, then if it were me, I'd be showing you affection. Thus, I'd narrow my goals a bit. I'd also take stock of those small things that lead to the biggest of your goals - him moving back home...I am the one booted from the house...I'd love to go back home. 5D told me the other night - after bible stories question - can God do anything? She said yes - and then said, "I want Mommy to let you come home tomorrow."
It's hard...it really is...but make your goal list smaller and attainable. Can you get any of these in the next couple weeks. What would have to happen in order to get a compliment say. Could you do a 180 or something different or something for him that would prompt a reaction from him? Just brainstorming...
