this maryangela -thread 3 -- he's gone

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I need help with goals. I'm really commiting to db'ing now as I saw a SMALL shift yesterday when h was over because of MY behavior.

I've read the chapter in DR so many times and still have trouble with this.

ok, here's my goals

1. I'd like h to move back home by September
2 I'd like h to give me a hug when he leaves
3. I'd like to have h give me a compliment -- even a small one
4. I'd like h to ask about ME when he calls not just d5
5. I'd LOVE even a small sign of affection

OK, how are these for goals. all advise is appreciated.