Hello Jasmine01 - I am sorry that you feel the way you do about your sitch. You have done everything right and there is nothing you can do to change the situation as far as your R with your husband is concerned. What you can do however, for you and your children, is to be the best person and best mother you can be. I know you love your husband unconditionally, but his heart is somewhere else. Is it fair on you to wait until he realises that the grass is not greener elsewhere? How long are you prepared to wait? One, five years? Meanwhile life will pass you by and as they say, there are no re-takes! Your H knows that you are available and there is no pressure on him to stop what they are doing. Perhaps if you started dating, it might make him realise that you are no longer available, that you are desirable, that HE will be the one who will have to win you back. People don't realise what they had until it is gone. It is all about power differentials in relationships. Right now, he seems to have 100% power and you 0%. Is it about time you regained some of that power?
