Can I whine for a few minutes here? I hate not having a partner around to share the tough stuff. Tomorrow morning I have to lug a twin bed and metal trundle upstairs by myself and move the kids' beds all around. My kitchen is overrun with ants. It would be a lot easier to clean it up with the help of another.

At the same time, I'm bound and determine to do this by myself if only to show my H I did.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.