CBK, I don't know whether this is a good sign or not, but it does get "easier." You become less tuned into the minutiae, more able to handle the rough stuff because you expect it. Once you get DB in your blood I think it makes it easier because you know how to react to a given situation. Doesn't mean you don't screw up, but you screw up less. Once you embrace the 180s and GAL for yourself, you find that this process makes you grow. At least that's been my experience.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.