CBK. It sucks, doesn't it? I think I knew for months that my H had to move out. He definitely needed his space. The separation has allowed both of us to grow and I think it was, to borrow my husband's term, a necessary evil.

In many ways, it does make it easier. Now make sure to give your W space. For her and for you. Make it be for you!

I hope you sleep well.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.