Winner At A Losing Game

[lise]

Wow, as I read your thread about how you are cooperating with your W I wonder how you do it? Figuring out how to "share" our children is one of my biggest worries about my S. My H left for OW less than 2 months ago and moved 9 hours away. He wants to see his sons (14 & 16) but only complains about how expensive it is to have to drive so far. He tried to get me to drop them off for him (out of the way) on a different trip we were on a few weeks ago (it didn't work for other reasons) and now he wants to send them on the bus (the nearest station to me is 2 hours away.) I think he should stop thinking only about himself and his convenience. He has seen them twice since he left home. I am getting very bitter about him complicating our lives this way. I also don't really want them to see where he is and who he is with, but I know I have to get over that. How do you release your children into the care of a parent you think is being such a poor model and making such poor choices in his life?