Your thread's locked CBK, or I would have posted on it. I searched back on your thread and found a letter. I assume that is the letter.

The letter is fine. It's long, and repetitive, but it doesn't break any rules. You don't accuse her of anything, you don't use foul language, you talk mainly about yourself, so it's OK. It may not be what she wants to hear now. She may not be ready for the letter. But I can't see that sending it does any harm. It is a warm, loving, thoughtful, straight from the heart letter. Marriage is about communication. You are trying to open a line of communication. That is a good thing. Looking forward to hear how she responds.