Just Honest..

[kikifree]

Thanks Cat. Ijust want D7 to have peace in all this. I do not want her sad about anything.

[kikifree]

H emailed then I called him.

H and i had a long conversation. I will no longer argue with him. I am not too happy now. I haven't argued nor will I.

things he said:
He doesn't understand why I want to meet OW (this was from him, not me..I haven't spoken to him)

What am I going to say to her.

Why did I tell D7 he doesn't love me anymore? She shouldn't know that.
i told hinm he told D7 I was mean to him but did not mention it because it wasn't a big deal.

He said I was and I reimbded him the only time i am is when he has been to me.

He couldnt recall.

he told he he didnt feel anything for me at all .H does not not like me or like me. He can care less about me. It doesnt matter.

I reminded H he was the one who wanted us to be friends after the divorce...he had also told me he didnt like me in the past.

he didnt say anything.



I told him if he plans to be with OW for the rest of his life I would like to know who would be around my daughter.

H told me the only person that is saying that is me. i said H you have been with her for ..he cut me off and said the only person that is saying that is me again.

I told him if someone moved in with me he would want to meet them. First he said sure. Then late rhe said he trusted my judgement. He would find out about them later anyways

I told him I would never pick someone beneath him to worry about.

I told H it is hard because I have morals and will not teach D7 it is okay for him to be with Ow. That was the person he had an affair wit hand he has to understand that.

H said that what if i broke up with OW , we got divorced , and I met someone else it would be better?

I said yes, that is the person you had an affair with.

H said it is a little late for that(D7 around OW). D7 has already met OW. i reminded him it was unwillingly. He said he knew that.

I gave in. I said if you want you can her her around her. I do not care anymore.


He as speechless. Didnt know what else to say .


We said bye.

[kikifree]

I do not let my children say that so I take it back.

But I gave in.......

[kikifree]

Happy friday!!!!

Life is good, we are healthy, blessed , with jobs..can't complain.

H dropped off D7 last night earlier . I was out. He texted me telling me they were waiting for me.

When i got there , I handed him some soccer pics of D7 he said he never got.

H : wow, look at that they just appeared

M: I just made copies of them for you

H: I can't gt an original..what you and your family do?

M: H it doesn't matter to me ..here you can have the original, just give me the copy.

H: Kiki, you realy need to stop smoking( I smked 1 cigerette at my sis's house..Just because...I am not a smoker but my hair smelled of it)

M: So do you

h: i do not smoke anymore

He does. Ther are cigerettes in his car all the time and his truck smells of it at times

M: yes you do..and I left.

his antics will not get the best of me.

[Cinderellaman]

Hi sweetness...wow what stuff still pours out....Take care xxx

[kikifree]

Hey CINDERS, how are you doing?

Sometimes , I just sometimes think We LBS are crazy.

Some make excuses, excuss and that is why they are in a stand still. They do not want to own up to anything.
And when someone trys to hlp they get defnsive.

I am all ears for help!!!!!

No excuses here.

Just had to vent that.

[Cinderellaman]

Hi sweetness...

I am doing well, but to be honest, H upped the contact, and I 'let' him and now he has gone dark again...I sent him a TM about our son playing hockey and looking so cool and big, I got ABSOLUTELY NO RESPONSE...sometimes I too feel that we are the crazy ones...

Having a little 'off' night, but will be fine again tomorrow for sure !

Take care xxxx

[peacetoday]

Kiki
Seems
like you are handling things well
and you got your point across about OW and affair
that must have felt good
these guys are shutdown thats why H feel nothing for you
I believe they shutdown in crises as they are overwhlmed with pain and cant deal with it
OW really just has a shell of a manand she has to be a total loser
peace

[cagzmom]

kiki you are doing awesome...much better to have let go isn't it?? And yes I knwo we let go in stages--but you know what i mean!!

[kikifree]

Thank you ladies for stopping in,

I am doing well.

I texted H about the dog bills that are 3 months over due yesterday.

H ignored me. Or he is dead.


I texted him a couple of hours later ,and added I hped he was okay. H still ignored me.


Okay, I understand he has no FEElING towards me but really. does he have to completely ignore me.
We haven't spoken since Thursday.

It is $900 dollars what he promised
3 months ago. That is half. Even though the dog was with him when this happened and I was the one taking care of him for a week.

i told him the dog had nothing to do with the divorce in the text and it was only fair.

So HE IGNORES me.

How old are we????

I am still blessed!!!!!