Hi Andy, I hope all is improving with respect to your D's cry for help. With you there, I'm sure it will.
Living paralell lives. I hear what you and LAN are saying. I understand as I've experienced some short periods of this myself. Don't automatically presume that your WAW's issues are about you. Really!
There is so much more to being happy than our R's with our S. Don't get me wrong. It's important. Just not enough so to ruin your life over.
Nothing will change until you choose change for yourself. No, I'm not talking about leavin. That's an option, but I'm really talkin about changing your life to revolve around those that wish to be with you and those issues you have some degree of control over. Primarily, your kids, your faith and your personal goals for yourself.
I know how it can suck when your S goes off the deep end or decides that you are not good enough. Both you guys have been here long enough to know ya gotta stop letting their choices pull you down.
Summer 2003 is brand new. What can we do that would be different this year.