CBK, you stated in your last post that you feel at ease right now. I believe the reason for this is because you knew this was going to happen sooner or later and it in some ways takes the pressure off of you wondering what your next move was going to be around your W. This is your time to detach, don't call her, email her or make any contact at all. Show her that you are man enough and your life will be fine with or without her. You have been in a desperate state for some time now, she has seen it all over your face and your actions, she knew how bad you wanted to make your M work, now act as if you could care less if she is there or not. This will be tough at first but it will become much easier with her being gone. As I have posted to you in the past, I'm not sure how detaching in the same house even works, now you have the prime opportunity to do just that.
